Mrs. Y. Clements: Musical Keys was the first
place I accessed following my daughters diagnosis, I found a very
friendly, warm group of people, not only offering music and movement
to my baby but also support and inclusion for the first time. You
see you don't fit in to Mum and Toddlers when your child is
different. My daughter is registered blind and with going to Musical
Keys regularly helped her develop social skills. When you are blind
any noise is startling and unsettling, but with music and
instruments whilst in a safe environment helps children prepare for
the outside world. The support I received from staff and parents was
a life line, you often feel very alone and isolated, but they gave
me a sense of worth and I felt I belonged.
D. Sheppard: My work involves considerable
contact with professionals in special education, with vulnerable
young people and their families. I am also the father of a young man
with autism. During the 14 years I have known about the work of
Musical Keys I have witnessed so many occasions where young people
have experienced sheer delight at being involved in the practical
sessions. The value to the community extends beyond this principal
purpose, however, Musical Keys is a desperately needed resource for
the parents of children with special needs. Apart from the practical
value of being an information sharing network, the opportunity to be
with other parents who will understand the pressure of one’s
situation and have experienced it themselves – simply to know that
you are not alone – has been a major lifeline to many parents I have
met. Furthermore, the beneficial effect also supports the siblings
of any children with special needs. It is never easy for growing
youngsters to come to terms with the fact that their brother or
sister is “different” and they must frequently have priority in
terms of attention. Meeting others in the same situation at Musical
Keys has been a terrific support for my own family, and I know many
others who would endorse this view.
S. Parish: I have known Musical Keys for 15
years. Over the years we have worked together on a wide variety of
projects and activities, ranging from the promotion of inclusive
play and learning through to campaigning together. Throughout this
time I have been impressed by Musical keys professionalism and
willingness to work in partnership with other groups in order to
ensure that children and their parents benefit fom our combined
skills, resources and experience. Musical keys sessions offer
children with disabilities the opportunity to learn basic skills,
improve their co-ordination and learn to express themselves through
music and movement. The session leaders also offer a great deal of
support to parents and other family members, helping to reduce
feelings of isolation and allowing parents the opportunity to offer
each other friendship and mutual support.
A Dad finds support for all the family: I
travel with my two small sons to Norwich from Thetford to attend the
Saturday groups at Musical Keys. We have been warmly welcomed and I
benefit by meeting other parents who have similar experiences and
gaining from their advice. They encourage my son to join in even if
he has a temper tantrum, nobody asks moans or asks me to leave the
group, which we have experienced at other groups in the past. My son
has grown in confidence, his motor skills and speech has improved.
My older son also enjoys meeting other children and realizes that
his brother isn't the only child with special needs and he also has
lots of fun at the group.
A Parent finds friendship: I greatly value
the friendship and support I have found at Musical Keys, from staff,
volunteers and other parents and carers. It is impossible to
overemphasize the importance of being able to meet with, and
exchange ideas with, people who understand and sometimes share the
difficulties and social isolation encountered by parents of Autistic
and other children with special needs.
Parents find understanding: My son is twelve
years old and Autistic. We first started Musical Keys when he was
four at which time he was very distressed by any social contact with
the outside world. Normal activities for small children such as
going to the park were fraught with difficulty. His lack of
understanding of normal social behaviour would cause disapproval
from other parents, and any attempts to take him out invariably
ended with me having to carry him away screaming. At Musical Keys,
although his behavior is still very difficult, the staff and
volunteers understand the difficulties faced by Autistic children,
and other parents, having children with special needs themselves,
were non-judgmental. Over the years, having met only with patience,
kindness and perseverance, he has gradually come to really enjoy his
music group. He joins many activities, interacts with other children
and has recently even started joining in with singing, an enormous
step for him. |